It’s like you speak different languages, and neither one of you is fluent in the other’s language. When you and the narcissist speak, you assume he is understanding you and you are understanding him.  You respond to the narcissist as…

The narcissist quietly controls how you show up for your dreams.     Is It Concern, or Something Deeper? When you have a narcissistic partner, work, and goal sabotage can be so subtle.  It often comes across as concern, helpfulness,…

Cathy was just a little girl, when she first recognized that it wasn’t safe to be wrong.   Of course, she didn’t realize that her dad and her older sister were the problem. She thought she was the problem. Cathy…